So I was able to get under the car today and was able to look at everything myself and here's what I found. I'm wondering what the shop actually "fixed" with the gasket since it looks like they just spread rtv over all of the cracks which makes me wonder why they would put it anywhere else other than the plate if that was supposedly the only place leaking. And with the wider picture of the plate you can see the gasket sticking out over the 4th bolt hole. So I'm pretty sure if I were to get the oil cooler it would bolt up fine and that this is indeed (or at least part of) a second gen qr25. But then that probably wouldn't even fix the leak since it seems like it could be coming from multiple spots.